"So, where ya from?" To most, it’s a simple question. An icebreaker. Small talk. To others, it is not so simple of a question. The question is asked at networking events, conferences, first dates, sorority recruitment, and even during the icebreaker games professors play to start a new semester. It is a question with the potential to launch a rudimentary bond between strangers. The question is a starting point. It’s an easy question to ask but what about the answer? Like I said before, it depends. Some people are born and raised in the same town their entire life, others move to a different city/town in the same state, and others move a bit further away. I personally was born in one city, lived in the suburbs of that city through elementary school, moved out of the state before middle school, and eventually moved to where I live now for grad school. So, when someone asks me “so, where ya from?” I don’t always give the same answer. I don’t overtly lie to them, but I might...
The conversations you have with your friends once ya get past those awkward icebreakers...